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Jonathan Cartu Stated: Getting married in a year? You need to save $2,300 a month

Getting married in a year? You need to save $2,300 a month

Jonathan Cartu Stated: Getting married in a year? You need to save $2,300 a month

Back when I was planning my wedding, I learnt that flowers cost an arm and both legs. And what some wedding photographers charge for a day’s work is more than what I earn in two years (Hi boss, hint hint).

Yeah, weddings ARE expensive. But how expensive?

Before you get down on one knee to pop the question or even say “Yes, I do!” Let’s find out how much you need to save every month if you’re planning to have the “average” wedding of your dreams in one year’s time.

Disclaimer: the numbers and figures here are all based on assumptions and estimations, so feel free to adjust them accordingly to better reflect your situation.

ROM & SOLEMNISATION 

It doesn’t cost much to get legally married in Singapore. If you’re a Singapore citizen or PR, it’ll cost you $42 to get registered at the Registry Of Marriage (ROM).

That’s it.

Your cost for getting that legally binding document: $42.

End of article.

Heck, if you’re feeling generous, you can even invite those present to a 1-for-1 buffet.

But… Because we’re all about that dream “average” wedding, let’s look at what it’ll cost if you did the whole she-bang. Prudently, of course. 

WEDDING VENUE AND BANQUET

Yes, I know that it’s arguably cheaper if you hold your wedding in a standalone restaurant or cafe.

But imagine THIS scenario when you tell your parents or in-laws that you’re planning to have your wedding at the kopitiam downstairs:

Your parents will insist that you have it in some hotel’s grand ballroom because “What will (insert name of important relative) think of us?”

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You didn’t want to sell a kidney to afford this luxury, but they threatened to disown you. Or better, they used emotional blackmail: “You’re the only the daughter/son in the family! I did not raise you for (insert number of) years only to marry you off in a kopitiam!”

You decide that since you bobian have to do it, that you’ll prefer to have your banquet in a reputable, mid-tier hotel

You’re going to have your banquet on a Sunday afternoon which is arguably cheaper than Saturday night

You manage to cap your guest list at 100 people. And at 10 people to a table, that means that you’re looking for a venue which allows a minimum of 10 confirmed tables.

Looking at Singapore Bride’s wedding banquet price list for an affordable wedding venue that fits this bill, I found: Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel.

Booking Grand Copthorne Waterfront also means that you get standard perks like:

  • Wedding favours for your guests
  • Free flow of soft drinks, mixers, and tea throughout the vent
  • One bottle of house wine per confirmed table
  • Wedding decor the wedding cake and floral decorations for the stage, VIP table, and reception table
  • One night’s stay at the hotel
  • VIP parking for the bridal car

And assuming you choose the 7-course set menu option, you’re looking at $1,038++ per table of 10 guests. Or $1,222 (after service charge and GST).

Your total cost of wedding venue and banquet for 100 guests: $12,220

WEDDING BANDS

In line with our budget-friendly “average” wedding expectations, we shopped around and managed to find a pair of 18K white gold wedding bands for $800. The bands are 0.3cm thick and are just plain bands with no customisations – like pave diamonds, for example.

And where pray tell can you find such budget prices? Well… I’m going to let you in on a little secret here.

This weekend, visit Tiong Bahru Industrial Estate and have a walk around. You’ll find workshops with master metalsmiths who make rings for big name brands like Tiffany & Co and Poh Heng. If you don’t mind the same quality rings without the Tiffany blue box, then you’re going to find plenty of deals there.

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Assuming you keep the wedding rings simple and honest like your relationship: $800 (for two bands)

BETROTHAL GIFTS AND DOWRY

If your parents or in-laws are Chinese, then you’ll have to observe the tradition of giving betrothal gifts (Guo Da Li aka 过大礼) as well as a dowry (Pin Jin aka 聘金) to the bride’s family.

There’s NO minimum market rate and it really comes down to understanding what the parents or in-laws are expecting when preparing this gift (be it in gifts, cash, or jewellery).

If both of you are really lucky, the bride’s parents will only take a token sum, say… $8. And give you their blessings. P.S. Treasure those folks.

We’ll hazard a guess and say you can expect to gift: $888 – $1,888

BRIDAL PACKAGE

I’m sure you’ve heard horror stories of bridal studios who promise a selection of 20 beautiful gowns, only to inform the couple that their first choice suddenly requires an “upgrade” after they’ve signed and paid a hefty deposit.

While not all bridal studios are like that. There’s a general belief that bridal packages, offered by bridal studios, are the cheapest and most convenient way to get things done.

To give everyone a better idea of what the individual items in a bridal package cost, let’s see what the cost breakdown will be like if we choose to do things a la carte.

1. Wedding Gown & Suit

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